Its Not Your Job to Save Anybody

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This morning while going over some notes that were used for an evangelism study in Barrouallie last November using Bill Faye’s book “Share Jesus without Fear” I  was reminded just how important goals are when it comes to evangelism.  And sadly also reminded many of us (myself included) have the wrong goal for our evangelistic outreach.

A few years ago when sharing the Gospel with an unsaved friend someone would have asked me “hey what is your goal?” my answer would have been “win him to the Lord obviously!”

Theres just one problem with that

I can’t win anybody to the Lord

And as a matter of fact…it isn’t my job to win people to the Lord

That’s God’s job through the Holy Spirit as they understand the truths of Scripture

There are many verses that can explain this truth but allow me to just use Romans 10:9-11

Rom. 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. Rom. 10:10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. Rom. 10:11 For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.

Using this passage as a guide three things must take place for a person to be saved

  1. They must confess their sins before God (inability to save themselves)
  2. They must believe that Christ died for their sins and rose from the dead
  3. The idea of confession here also has calling out to Christ for Salvation

The thing that kept going through my mind this morning was only the Holy Spirit’s conviction can bring someone to a place where they will confess their sins, believe Jesus died for them, and call on Christ for Salvation.

the other thing was that my words or wisdom could never bring them there.

Have you ever tried to talk someone into accepting Christ?  It’s an incredibly hard thing to do, and you if you do succeed it’s often not a true Salvation experience.  The person will either pray because you want them to, or do it so that you will leave them alone.

Other times trying to win someone to the Lord with your own wisdom will end up a colossal failure (making yourself look foolish) or an argument so instead of explaining Gods truth the only thought is to show that other person he is wrong.

The thing is after you’ve encountered enough people accepting Christ because you want them to or pointless arguments its very easy to become discouraged.  It’s then that people do one of two things

  1. They either try harder to win people to the Lord (remember here I am referring to using their own wisdom or strength to bring a Salvation decision)
  2. Or just quit trying to witness because that’s a job for the “extroverts” of the world

By doing this though we overlook a very important point….winning them to Christ isn’t our goal anyways.  See God knows I don’t have the ability or wisdom to lead a person to repentance and faith in Christ.  So He just calls me to share.

Matt. 28:18 And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth.

Matt. 28:19 Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:

Matt. 28:20 Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

Notice our only command is to teach others (share) the Gospel of Christ, along with church membership (baptism of believers).  The reason for this is simple….it’s God’s truth that changes a person’s life.

Not my arguments,

Not my confidence or wisdom,

Not my human words

So my calling is to make sure that person understands God’s truth, then step aside.  because the moment my words, stories, or confidence saves someone I’m basically telling the Holy Spirit “its okay you can sit this one out.”

As someone whose tried to share the Gospel and failed in spectacular fashion let me assure you its much better to admit saving someone isn’t your job…then get out of the Holy Spirits way so He can do it.

 

Entering a Season of Studying

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A Season of Studying

About a week ago I finished my devotional at a Easter sunrise service by publicly referring to myself as a “spaz.” This earned a chuckle or two from the audience, but the truth is God’s definitely created me that way. Please understand I’m using the word spaz not in a disrespectful manner…instead it refers to someone whose “activity-cantered” or must always be doing something [1] and usually has a very short attention span.

Most of the time my activity-centred personality doesn’t create a problem since theres always plenty of work to do. However since coming back to the States for a two-month furlough its created challenges.

Oh don’t get me wrong I’m still working very hard. The difference is my ministry now is focused on studying, reading, writing and developing discipleship material while in St Vincent my ministry focused on teaching and discipleship ministries that involved lots of human interaction.

As a “spaz” I love those island ministries because they bring excitement and energy into my life. Most of all it gives me something encouraging to tangibly evaluate my day with [2]. This reading and lesson plan preparation ministry (or as I call it my season of study) on the other hand isn’t all that fun.

  1. I spend most of the day by myself [3]
  2. Lots of time reading and writing can become pretty boring
  3. And worst of all there aren’t many tangible things to celebrate [4]

Lately my Spastic personality has started to complain

  • Man this is boring!
  • Can’t we go do something fun?
  • Wouldn’t it be more important to volunteer somewhere instead of creating those evangelism lesson plans?
  • Wow you haven’t accomplished anything today…your pathetic.

Now of course I’m not pathetic but as someone whose geared for relationships working from home can be sort of discouraging. Yet when my impatient side speaks up I remind him the seasons of studying are an incredibly important part of ministry.

The thing is it’s almost impossible to go through this season while on the mission field because the problems are too pressing, and its difficult to study Hermeneutics with little kids ringing your bell all day 🙂

While this season of studying is helping me learn many truths about God’s Word one in particular has become precious to me.

Ministry isn’t always fun

It’s tempting to look at the fun parts of ministry [5] and forget that for each one of those there are others not enjoyable at all. Yet its only after we faithfully complete the study seasons of ministry that ministry can be truly effective.

Would I be rather playing football with kids in barrouallie than marking textbooks? Of course! But its the lessons learned in those textbooks that will raise a generation of Godly men and women on the island.

 

[1]: has a very hard time sitting still or relaxing

[2]: I had two Bible clubs today!

[3]: yes this is a good thing, but after coming from a ministry based on interaction it can be a big change

[4]: kind of hard to get fired up about reading twenty-five pages in a theology book

[5]: teaching, discipleship, leadership

Why Salvation is a Choice

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During my first few months in Barrouallie it became apparent many children came to Bible club not because they were interested in Christ, but for the chance to get some of Mr. John’s juice (koolaid) or play one of my tablets.  Of course this is normal so I decided to look children who actually wanted to be there for the right reasons.  One of those kids was Adam (not is real name).

Adam showed a real interest in the teaching time and was always one of the best behaved kids there.  In fact we had to make a rule about how many times a person could get the peanut-butter sandwich reserved as a special reward each week so Adam couldn’t get it every day!  Over time I began to notice the Lord working on his heart and began to share the Gospel with Adam.

The interesting thing is when I asked Adam where he would go when he died he would immediately tell me”Hell” and there was a clear understanding of how to receive Christ.  Yet whenever I asked Adam if he wanted to accept Christ today or later his response was always “later.”

At first Adam’s saying later was frustrating, especially since he was so close to accepting Christ.  Part of me wanted to tell him that Jesus could come back today or he could die that afternoon destined for Hell.  I considered giving Adam ten reasons why he should accept Christ that moment or talking him into accepting Jesus.

But I didn’t do it because Salvation has to be a choice

Lots of the kids who come to Bible club tell me they are saved, but when I ask them to tell me about it they give some very interesting responses.

  1. I prayed a prayer (that they cannot remember any of)
  2. I told God I loved him
  3. I talked with God
  4. I decided I was going to be a good person

While I try not to question the Salvation of others, when someone cannot give a clear testimony of accepting Christ you start wondering if they really know Him at all.

While the children deserve some of the blame for this I believe the majority of it falls on those who shared the Gospel with them.  That boy or girl either a.) didn’t truly understand the gospel or b.) decided to pray a prayer because that’s what the person wanted them to do.  In both cases they were never truly saved in my opinion.

By placing pressure on Adam to accept Christ instead of allowing him to do it on his own I would have contradicted the character of Christ who knocks on the door of a lost persons heart instead of breaking it down (Revelation 3:20), and of God who gives us free-will desiring children who willingly choose Him instead of robots who are forced to obey.

Even worse I will try to do the Holy Spirits job of convicting his heart over sin with my human wisdom instead of God’s Word.  Yes my putting pressure on him may result in a conversion, but when asked why he accepted Christ Adam may say “because Mr. John wanted me to.”  Of course there is a place for us to encourage children like Adam to accept Jesus.  But this is done as we cooperate with the conviction of the Holy Spirit.

One warm afternoon Adam sat on my front porch and after weeks of being inches from the Gospel accepted Christ as His Lord and Savior.  Though it could have happened sooner I’m grateful the Lord kept me patient because the choice was his.

The End of Bachelor Living

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A few weeks ago I was talking with my parents about the things to include in barrels being sent to St. Vincent and my mom suggested buying Correlle dishes.  This began a conversation that included pampered chef, Tupperware, the softness of towels, and how many thread counts would be in my sheets 🙂

 

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I didn’t question the need for kitchen items like pots and pans in my new home.  However the amount spent on such items was a different story.

You see though I’m in my forties part of me still embraces a part of bachelor living.  Not the part about being lazy, never cleaning up after yourself, and being cheap.  But the part that doesn’t have lots of people over for dinner.  It isn’t that my cooking is awful of course, there are just lots of people in town who cook better meals, with more variety.  In other words there is no reason for me to buy correlle wear for my ham sandwich or scrambled eggs.

Yet I found myself spending lots of money this week on Correlle, a toaster oven, microwave, fluffy towels, and 450 thread sheets.

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Why?  Because you can’t do missions and be a bachelor.

All ministries (and missions in particular) involve work in church on Sunday or Wednesday, but other teaching is done outside of church during the week.  This is where the majority of your evangelism, discipleship, and counseling takes place as we use teachable moments for God’s glory.  Unfortunately those kind of moments don’t necessarily arrive on their own, so we must create a place for them.

In a perfect world people would come to my house for a Bible study even if the only thing offered was slightly burned popcorn.  But we don’t live in a perfect world, so I need to offer hamburgers and hot-dogs with french fries and Pepsi while we discuss how the historical narrative of Acts affects our interpretation of the book.

Will it be the best food they ever taste? Of course not!  But that’s okay because eventually the will start coming for something much more important than hamburgers like Godly counsel, a challenge, encouragement, or listening ear.  Of course there will always be something I can whip up for them in the kitchen 🙂

Walking through Wal-Mart yesterday with a toaster oven in my hands I reached a moment of frustration.  “Lord I don’t need all of this stuff!” part of me said “I can live off peanut butter and grilled cheese sandwiches for the rest of my life!”  The Lords answer to me was “John this isn’t for you! This is for all the people who will enter your home not understanding the truth of the Gospel.  The people who want to study my word but don’t know how.  The people who just need someone to talk to.”

So in the end it isn’t about how good my cooking is but creating a place where people feel welcome and ministry can take place.

Even if they have to eat an occasional bowl of burned popcorn.

A Culture that can Quote Romans 3:23 but has no idea what it means 

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Last week I shared a story about sharing theGospel with people who came during a free medical-clinic run by a missions team in St. Vincent.  It was interesting how many of them had a basic knowledge of Scripture (knew what to say) but didn’t know what the right answer actually meant.  For instance when asked where they would go when they died people would quickly say “heaven” but when I asked why God would let them into Heaven a look of fear was their only response.

It’s easy to condemn that unsaved person for their lack of knowledge about God’s Word and they should be.  However at the same time Christians face some of the blame as well for sharing “tidbits instead of the Gospel.”  In other words much of our evangelism is done through out outreaches or events instead of one on one sharing.

Bill Faye in his book “Share Jesus Without Fear” explains giving out tidbits this way

A survey from the Institute of American Church Growth showed that 75 to 90 percent of new believers come to Christ through a friend or acquaintance who explains the good news on a one-to-one basis. Only 17 percent of all conversions come through what is called an “event”—a pastor giving his Sunday morning message, a Billy Graham crusade, or a Friendship Sunday. Yet, most churches denote the majority of their time, energy, and money to these kinds of events.

Please understand I’m all for outreach events because often that’s the only time the unsaved will visit a Church.  But I also agree with Bill Faye that a greater emphasis should be placed on Chrisitians sharing their own faith since it has a stronger affect.  And in the end events or evangelism programs can only give the foundational truths of the Gospel.

  1. You are a sinner
  2. Your sin separates you from God
  3. There is nothing you can do to reach God in Heaven
  4. Because we are in need God sent Jesus to die on the cross for our sins
  5. Through  blood of Christ and His resussurection we can be saved through Faith

Of course those foundational truths are a powerful thing but sadly it’s not possible to personally counsel or share with everyone in attendance so many of them go home with a clear knowledge of Scripture but a false interpretation of it.  Or in the worse case they will honestly admit not knowing what it means at all!

While living in a culture that can quote Romans 2:23 or 6:23 but doesn’t know what it truly means can be frustrating it’s also an incredible blessing.  Because the knowledge of Scripture is in their mind just waiting for someone to explain it! All it takes is a humble Christian willing to explain God’s truth in clear terms, and then get out of the way so that the Holy Spirit does the work. He does a better job anyways.

The other blessing of this knowledge is they already have the answer for our deepest questions…

  1. Why is there so much violence and crime in the world? (Because we chose to rebel against God Romans 3:23)
  2. Why can’t I find happiness?  (There is a gap (separation) between us and God)
  3. If God is loving then why is there a Hell?  (He doesn’t want to but that’s the price that we chose Romans 6:23)

It’s an incredible blessing to see the light go off in someone’s eyes when they realize Heaven is a free gift, and they don’t have to earn it or work for it anymore, Salvation is accepted by faith in Christ.  Yet they need someone who will come explain it to them.

We live in a generation  that doesn’t understand Scritpure but that’s okay…because they live with a generation of Chrisitans that do.